My Heart Is Breaking ~~~Nancy

~~~ My Mom Is In A Nursing Home | And I Can't Change It ~~~


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My home was offered as a place for my mom to come to, where she could
be taken care of by people who love her; but the people in charge, won't let that happen.
They chose a nursing home. ~~~Nancy





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It is funny how your heart can be breaking; and someone asks you, "
How are you?" and you answer, "Fine, thank you!" But your heart is breaking.

 

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In The United States Of America And Beyond!


Today is the most important day in your life! It is the only day that matters ...

Yesterday is gone ... Tomorrow is not here ... (See this below...)Do your best to stay in today!

"... To me,

being a "pro-life feminist" means

being pro-life with a drive to eliminate the reasons why women turn to abortion. No woman should feel that she has to choose between a career or an education and a child. No woman should have to choose between food and shelter and a child. As the organization Feminists for Life says, "Women deserve better."
Abortion hurts women in many ways, but there is only one that I want to point out right now. Abortion upholds the status-quo. Schools and employers don't feel the need to accommodate pregnant and parenting women if those women "should have just gotten abortions." We can't force the fathers to do their part in paying child support if the mothers "should have just gotten abortions." We can't change the social stigma attached to single parenting if we can say that the woman "should have just gotten an abortion."
I was blessed with a supportive husband and a school that was willing to work around my schedule so I could graduate. Too many women are not so lucky. That's the reason why I'm a pro-life feminist. - See more at: http://www.ignitumtoday.com/2013/07/28/you-dont-have-to-choose-between-being-a-feminist-and-being-pro-life/#sthash.9RTKHFZz.dpuf ... (Please move to the heading to this full text and source.)

I've got a broken heart...

 

My mom is being sent to live in a nursing home.

My heart is broken. I don't know how to do this.


My home was offered as a place for my mom to come to,
where she could be taken care of by people who love her; but the people in charge, won't let that happen.
They chose a nursing home. A cold, sterile nursing home.
A place that is about 20 miles away from me.


How can I do this?
Tomorrow is Christmas Eve, and 'Christmas is supposed to be at my parent's house.
How can I go there and have a Christmas.
I don't want to hurt my father. I'm angry at him for this choice.
But, I don't want to hurt him. I know that he is hurting over this too.
... my heart is breaking ...

 

It is now about one week later....

My heart is broken and, breaking still more. I've cried a lot
of tears. There has been no change, my mother is still in that
nursing home. She is loosing her memory. I've visited her every day;
and quickly decided that twice a day was best. Her memory doesn't
last an entire day without stimulus. Today is the second Monday, and I'll only visit once today,
tonight I have a commitment and won't be able to make it. I'd probably go,
but they lock the doors at 8:00 p.m. so it isn't as easy to get in. I've told my mother
that I'd call this evening and that her nurse would tell her that I called. She said to me,

"And who will they say is calling?"
She is wise, she knew that she couldn't recall my name at that moment.




When I walked into the center today, I heard my mom call my name.
She was in one of the main areas with a group of residents -
they were all in a circle in their wheel chairs, each holding one end of this
large 'octapus' shaped stretchey band. The activities woman was
in the middle of them, directing the people to raise or to pull on the band.
It was an exercise activity. But, my mom saw me,
and called out my name. That was wonderful!

This part of my mom's life is teaching me very well the concept
that we start out as dependent persons, and end up, dependent upon people
for help. So, why do so many people get abandoned at this time of life -
when they are so needy. Why are they, let go of,
at that time in life?


 

If today were your last day on earth? What would you do?


If today were the last day of my life,would I want to do what I am about to do today?

Read more ... How Music Got Me Through This! ~~~Nancy
 

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